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Limodzi mwa mavuto omwe tili nawo ndi zisankho pakadali pano ndikuti ndizitali kwambiri. Kuyesera kuyembekezera kuti wopikisana nawo azitha kumaliza chaka chimodzi osadzipangitsa kuti aziwoneka ngati mtedza ndizosatheka. Zangokhala zovuta kwa Purezidenti… aliyense akudzifunsa kuti ndi ndani amene akuyendetsa malowa popeza amakhala akuyenda nthawi zonse kufuna kusankhidwa. Ndipo gawo lirilonse lachigawo chilichonse pakalankhulidwe kali konse kumangosanthulidwa mpaka kufa mpaka atolankhani atha kupeza vuto lazinthu. Ndizochititsa nyansi.

Ine sindine woyenera, koma kudziyikira panokha pazanema kumakutsegulirani momwemo. Pamene mukupitiliza kulemba, tweet, kusintha ndi kugawana, mwayi woti mudzipangire nokha ukuyandikira 100%. Ngati simutero, mukungokhala osayika mtima wanu ndi chidwi chanu. Ndimayika phazi langa mkamwa mwanga nthawi zonse. Tsiku lina ndidzauza anthu kuti alipo palibe malamulo azanema, ndiye ndidza fuulani aliyense pa Google+ chifukwa cha momwe akugwiritsira ntchito.

Anthu ambiri (ndi makampani) angadandaule akaganiza zokhala ndi zotsutsana ngati izi.

Osati ine.

Chifukwa chiyani? Sindingalole kuti mantha akuwoneka ngati wonyoza andilepheretse kufotokoza. Ngati simukuzikonda, monga Chris Brogan adayankhapo… Mutha kundisiya pagulu lanu.

Aisha MulondaNdinakumana ndi anthu awiri odabwitsa ku BlogWorld Expo ndipo ndikufuna kuwatchula pano. Mmodzi anali Aisha Tyler, munthu wokhala ndi maluso ambiri (kuphatikiza nzeru zachangu kwambiri zomwe ndidawonapo) sindingathe kuzilemba.

kuphonya loriPambuyo pa nkhani yayikuluyo, ndidakhala pansi Abiti Lori, wotchuka wodziwika chifukwa chogwira ntchito ku PBS komanso kupitiliza kugwira ntchito zapa media media, media, komanso maphunziro. Tidakhala maola ambiri tikucheza… ndipo ndidadalitsidwanso kugawana nawo takisi ndi Abiti Lori m'mawa uno! Sindingatchule ngakhale pang'ono momwe amayankhulira modabwitsa.

Chosangalatsa… anthu awiri zomwe zidandichititsa chidwi zinali zanzeru, zamphamvu, zakuda, zachikazi komanso zokongola. Tsopano - musanayambe kuponyera nthabwala zachikulire zanu zonyansa, ndikudulirani pomwepo. Sikunali kukongola komwe kunandipeza ine… kunali kulimba mtima kolimbikitsa kwa azimayi awiriwa. Ndinaganiza kuti kunali kovuta kuti ndituluke koma sindingathe kulingalira zinthu zonse zomwe zikanatha kubweza Aisha ndi Abiti Lori. Siziwachedwetse. Iwo akhala akuyatsa njira kulikonse apita. Ndipo media media ndichinthu chotsatira kuti apambane (ali kale panjira yabwino!).

Sindinasiye kuganizira za izi.

Chimodzi mwazinthu zomwe zandichititsa kuti ndikule pantchito ino zaka zingapo zapitazi ndikumatha kugwira ntchito mopanda mantha akulephera. Ndinangosiya kumvera anthu omwe anandiuza kuti sindingathe, sindikufuna kapena sindiyenera. Ndinasiya kumvera anzanga, abwenzi komanso abale. Ndinapita patsogolo paliponse. Achinyamata… ndili ndi zaka 43! Ndi momwe zidanditengera nthawi yayitali kuti ndigonjetse ndikupita patsogolo. Ngakhale lero, wina akati anthu akuyankhula kumbuyo kwanga kapena amagawana mphekesera, sindimabwerera - ndimamenya. Mantha andipundula kwa zaka 20. Zinaba zosachepera theka la moyo wanga, waumwini komanso waluso. Sindiopa ayi, koma sindilola kuti mantha andiyimenso.

Izi zati ... Ndine wokwanira kuyerekeza ndi Aisha ndi Abiti Lori. Onsewa amakhala nkhunda zamagulu opanda gulu lothandizira (ndinali nditazunguliridwa ndi ma geek). Onsewa adachokera kuzinthu zofalitsa nkhani zachikhalidwe komwe makanema ochezera anali (ndipo) akuwonedwabe. Onsewa ndi azimayi, pachikhalidwe chawo pamakhala kusiyana pakati pa amayi ndi ukadaulo. Onsewa adayambiranso chidwi ndikupitiliza kukula pantchito yachikhalidwe. Osanena kuti malonda awa si maginito osiyanasiyana.

Koma adazichita paliponse.

Chifukwa chiyani? Powamvera, ndichifukwa choti chidwi chawo komanso masomphenya awo pakuwona kuti anali ndi mwayi pantchito iyi anali akulu kwambiri kuposa mantha aliwonse omwe angakhale nawo (Sindikudziwa ngati anali amantha!). Aisha adaziyika bwino bwino mu chiwonongeko chomaliza chomaliza… f *** iwo iye anati. Adandipusitsa ndikumvera chifukwa ndi zomwe ndimakhala ndikunena mkati nthawi iliyonse yomwe wina amalankhula kumbuyo kwanga za chiwonongeko changa.

Muyenera kumvetsetsa kuti chachiwiri mukadzipatula ku gulu, mumasiyana. Gululo likufuna kukukokerani inu mkati. Sindikufuna kuti muthamangire patsogolo. Akufuna kukuletsani. Simungathe kuwalola. Mwamwayi kwa inu, pali ena onga inu omwe angakuthandizeni. Momwe ndimakhalira ndi anzanga ku Chiwonetsero cha BlogWorld, Ndinapeza kuti ndili kunyumba ndi anthu omwe amafuna kuti ndizichita bwino. Ndipo ndikufuna kuti nawonso achite bwino.

Akubweza ndani? Ndikudziwa zomwe mungawauze ... ingofunsani Aisha.

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    Doug, sanapiteko ku blog yanu, Abiti Lori adalemba pa Twitter kotero werengani… ndipo ndikukumbukira kukuwonani ku #Bwela koma sindimadziwa kuti ndinu ndani. Chifukwa chake, mpaka pano, iyi ndi mbiri yodabwitsa komanso yowona mtima. Ndine wokwatiwa, koma ndalola mantha andibwezere m'mbuyo kwambiri m'moyo wanga. Ndikhala ndi zaka 35 m'masiku angapo, koma ndakhala ndikugwira ntchito molimbika kuti ndisiye mantha amenewo. Ndikuyamikira kwambiri positi yanu ndipo nthawi zonse zimakhala zabwino kumva ena akamadutsa munthawi imeneyi. Zikomo man, khalani ndi chabwino !!

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