Khalani ndi Moyo, Chikondi, Kuseka

KusinkhasinkhaNdakhala ndikuganiza zambiri posachedwa ndikukweza ndakatulo ndi mwana wanga pa moyo, kulera ana, ntchito, maubale, ndi zina. Moyo umabwera pamagulu anu ndipo mumakakamizidwa kupanga zisankho zomwe simunafune kutero.

Gawo 1: Ukwati

Pafupifupi zaka 8 zapitazo chinali chisudzulo changa. Ndinayenera kudziwa ngati ndingathe kukhala bambo wa 'sabata' kapena osakwatira. Ndinasankha izi chifukwa sindinakhale opanda ana anga.

Pakati pa chisudzulo, ndimayenera kudziwa kuti ndidzakhala munthu wamtundu wanji. Kodi ndimakhala wamwamuna wakale wokwiya yemwe amakokera wakale wake kulowa ndikutuluka kukhothi, kunyoza wakale wake kwa ana ake, kapena kodi ndikadalitsika ndikukhala ndi ana anga ndikuyenda mseu wapamwamba. Ndikukhulupirira ndidatenga mseu wapamwamba. Ndimayankhulabe ndi mkazi wanga wakale nthawi zambiri ndipo ndimapempherera banja lake nthawi zina ndikudziwa kuti akuvutika. Chowonadi ndi chakuti, zimafunikira mphamvu zochepa motere ndipo ana anga ali bwino chifukwa cha izi.

Gawo 2: Ntchito

Kuntchito, ndimafunikanso kusankha zochita. Ndasiya ntchito zopitilira zingapo mzaka khumi zapitazi. Ndinasiya imodzi chifukwa ndimadziwa kuti sindidzakhala zomwe abwana anga amafuna kuti ndikhale. Ndasiya ina posachedwa chifukwa sindinakwaniritse ndekha. Ndili mu ntchito yabwino tsopano zomwe zimandivuta tsiku lililonse ... koma ndikudziwa kuti mwina sindikhala pano zaka khumi kuchokera pano, mwina.

Sikuti ndimakayikira, ndikuti ndimakhala bwino ndi 'niche' yanga mu Marketing ndi Technology. Ndimakonda kusuntha mwachangu kuntchito. Zinthu zikamachedwetsa ndipo makampani amafunikira maluso omwe sandisangalatsa, ndimazindikira kuti yakwana nthawi yopitilira (mkati kapena kunja). Ndazindikira kuti ndikamagwiritsa ntchito luso langa, ndimakhala munthu wosangalala kuposa momwe ndimaganizira zofooka zanga.

Gawo 3: Banja

Ndikuyandikira 40 tsopano ndipo ndafika poti moyo wanga ndiyenera kupanga zisankho ndi maubale anga. M'mbuyomu, ndidayesetsa kwambiri kukhala ndi banja lomwe 'limanyadira za ine'. Mwanjira zambiri, malingaliro awo anali ofunikira kuposa anga. Patapita nthawi, ndinazindikira kuti amayesa kupambana mosiyanasiyana kuposa kale.

Kupambana kwanga kumayesedwa ndi chisangalalo cha ana anga, mtundu ndi maubwenzi olimba, anthu omwe ndimacheza nawo, ulemu womwe ndimapeza kuntchito, ndi zinthu zomwe ndimapereka tsiku lililonse. Mutha kuzindikira kuti mutu, kutchuka kapena chuma kunalibe mmenemo. Sanali, ndipo sadzakhalaponso.

Zotsatira zake, lingaliro langa lakhala kusiya anthu kumbuyo omwe akuyesera kundikokera pansi m'malo mondikweza. Ndimawalemekeza, ndimawakonda komanso ndimawapempherera, koma sindingowonongera kuti ndiwasangalatse. Ngati sindinachite bwino pamalingaliro awo, atha kusunga malingaliro awo. Ndine choyambitsa chisangalalo changa ndipo ayenera kuvomereza udindo wawo.

Monga bambo, ndimakondwera ndikudziwa kuti ana anga ndi ati, ndipo ndimawakonda mosagwirizana. Zolankhula zathu tsiku ndi tsiku ndizokhudza zomwe adachita, osati zolephera zawo. Izi zati, Ndine wolimba pa ana anga ngati sachita zomwe angathe, komabe.

Magiredi a mwana wanga wamkazi adatsika kwambiri sabata yatha. Ndikuganiza kuti ambiri anali kuti moyo wake pagulu unali wofunika kwambiri kuposa ntchito yake yasukulu. Zinamupweteka pomwe amakhoza. Adalira tsiku lonse chifukwa amakhala wophunzira wa A / B. Sikuti ndidakhumudwitsidwa bwanji zomwe zimawoneka, komanso momwe adakhumudwitsidwa.

Katie amakonda kutsogolera m'kalasi ndipo amadana kukhala pansi. Tidapanga masinthidwe - palibe abwenzi omwe amabwera kumapeto kwa sabata komanso osapanga. Zodzoladzola zinali zolimba… ndimaganiza kuti andiponyera mabowo ndi maso ake. Mkati mwa sabata, komabe, magiredi ake adayambiranso. Sanandibowolerenso, ndipo ngakhale kundiseka tsiku lina mgalimoto.

Ndizovuta kwambiri pama waya, koma ndikuchita zonse zomwe ndingathe kuti ndilimbikitse zabwino, osati zoyipa. Ndikuyesera kuwatsogolera kulowera kunyanja yokongola, osati nthawi zonse kuwakumbutsa za mkuntho womwe udawatsata.

Ana anga akamamasuka ndi omwe ali, ndimakondanso kwambiri momwe akukhalira. Amandidabwitsa tsiku lililonse. Ndili ndi ana osaneneka… koma ndilibe malingaliro olakwika a omwe 'Ndikuganiza kuti ayenera kukhala' kapena 'momwe ayenera kuchitira'. Ndiwo kuti azindikire. Ngati ali okondwa ndi iwo okha, malangizo awo m'moyo, komanso ndi ine… ndiye ndine wokondwa chifukwa cha iwo. Njira yabwino kwambiri yowaphunzitsira ndikuwonetsa momwe ndikuchitira. Buddha adati, "Aliyense amene andiwona akuwona chiphunzitso changa." Sindingavomereze zambiri.

Gawo 4: Chisangalalo

Ndimakumbukira a ndemanga kwakanthawi kuchokera 'bwenzi labwino', William yemwe adafunsa, "Chifukwa chiyani akhristu nthawi zonse amayenera kudzizindikiritsa okha?". Sindinayankhe funsoli chifukwa ndimayenera kuliganizira kwambiri. Iye anali kulondola. Akhristu ambiri amadzinenera kuti ali ndi malingaliro 'oyera kuposa inu'. William ali ndi ufulu wotsutsa anthu pa izi. Ngati mukudziika nokha, khalani okonzeka kuyankha chifukwa chake mwabwera!

Ndikufuna kuti anthu adziwe kuti ndine Mkhristu - osati chifukwa cha momwe ine ndilili koma chifukwa ndiomwe ndikuyembekeza kudzakhala tsiku lina. Ndikufuna thandizo m'moyo wanga. Ndikufuna kukhala munthu wokoma mtima. Ndikufuna anzanga azindikire kuti ndine amene ndimawasamalira, kuyika kumwetulira pankhope pawo, kapena kuwalimbikitsa kuchita zosiyana ndi miyoyo yawo. Pomwe ndimakhala pantchito ndikugwira ntchito ndi wogulitsa wamakani kapena kachilombo komwe ndimakumana nako pamavuto, ndikosavuta kuti ndiiwale chithunzi chachikulu ndikunena mawu ochepa. Ndikosavuta kuti ndikwiyire anthu akampani omwe akundivutitsa.

Lingaliro langa (locheperako) paziphunzitso zomwe ndimakhulupirira zimandiuza kuti anthu aku kampani inayo mwina akugwira ntchito molimbika, ali ndi zovuta zomwe akuyesetsa kuthana nazo, ndipo akuyenera kuleza mtima ndi ulemu wanga. Ngati ndingakuwuzeni kuti ndine Mkhristu, zimanditsegulira kuti andidzudzule ndikakhala wachinyengo. Nthawi zambiri ndimakhala wachinyengo (nthawi zambiri) choncho ndikhale womasuka kundiuza kuti sindine mkhristu wabwino, ngakhale mulibe zikhulupiriro zofanana ndi ine.

Ngati ndingathe kudziwa gawo 4, ndilisiya dziko ili ngati munthu wokondwa kwambiri. Ndikudziwa kuti ndidzakhala ndi chimwemwe chenicheni… Ine ndawonapo chisangalalo chotere mwa anthu ena ndipo ndikuchifuna ndekha. Chikhulupiriro changa chimandiuza kuti ichi ndi chinthu chomwe Mulungu akufuna ine kuti ndikhale nawo. Ndikudziwa kuti ndichinthu choti chingatenge, koma ndizovuta kusiya zizolowezi zoipa ndikusintha mitima yathu. Ndipitiliza kugwira ntchito, komabe.

Ndikukhulupirira kuti iyi sinali nkhani yovuta kwambiri kwa inu. Ndinafunika kufotokoza pang'ono za banja langa ndipo kulemba mosabisa kumandithandiza kwambiri. Mwina zingakuthandizeninso!

13 Comments

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    ZABWINO positi! Ndipo ndimakonda kudziwa kuti sindine kholo lokha lomwe limalanga mwa kuchotsa zodzoladzola. Mwana wanga wamkazi amaganiza kuti eyeliner ndiye mnzake wapamtima. Ndizodabwitsa kuti "amalandira" msanga bwanji pamene saloledwa kukhala nawo. 🙂

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      Eyeliner ndi mdani wa bambo wazaka-13. 🙂

      Ndikuganiza kuti zodzoladzola ndizotsetsereka. Sindinakhalepo wokonda zodzoladzola zambiri ndipo lingaliro langa ndiloti azimayi amagwiritsa ntchito mochulukira chifukwa amakhumudwa chifukwa cha kukongola kwawo. Chifukwa chake ... ngati uli ndi zaka 13, umatha kuwoneka ngati Picasso ukadzakwanitsa zaka 30.

      Ndikupuma, ndikukhulupirira kuti Katie angawone momwe alili wokongola kenako adzagwiritsanso ntchito zochepa pambuyo pake.

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        Ndikuvomereza. Ngakhale maluso owotcha maso a mwana wanga wamkazi adabwera mothandiza kwambiri usikuuno pomwe ndimakonzekera gala ya Heartland Film Festival Crystal Heart Awards. Adalengeza kuti "ndikuchita molakwika" ndipo adakonza bwino kwambiri maso anga. Eya, sindine wokonda zodzoladzola, makamaka b / c sindimakonda kuthera nthawiyo. Amayi ambiri omwe amavala ndi chopondera ayenera kuyimilira b / c ali okongola pansi pake. Ndiwe bambo wabwino poyesera kuphunzitsa mwana wako wamkazi kukongola kwenikweni.

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    Oo, ndi positi bwanji Doug! Ndimakonda kwambiri malingaliro anu.

    Mukudziwa, pali kusiyana kwakukulu pakati pa Chikhristu ndi Chisilamu pankhani zamabanja komanso chikhalidwe. Zambiri zomwe mudati mumakhulupirira zimakhala zitsanzo za ziphunzitso zambiri zachisilamu. Ndizoseketsa kuti nthawi zina osakhala a Mulsim ngati inu mumagwira ntchito yabwinoko yosonyeza zikhulupiliro zachisilamu kuposa zomwe Asilamu ena amalemba.

    Chifukwa chake, ndikupatsani moni! Pitirizani kukhala ndi malingaliro abwino. Ndiwe blogger wamkulu, ndipo mukutsimikiza kuti gehena imamveka ngati gehena ya abambo.

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      Zikomo AL,

      Ndizoseketsa mumanena choncho. Ndawerenga Korani ndipo ndili ndi anzanga omwe ndi achisilamu. Nthawi zonse tikakhala pamodzi timapeza zofanana pakati pa zipembedzo zathu. Zikomo chifukwa chondiyamikiranso - sindikuganiza kuti ndine kholo labwino momwe ndingakhalire, koma ndikuyesera!

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    Pepani kuti ndinene, koma izi zikundichititsa kuti ndikambirane ngati ndikufuna kusiya kapena ayi - pazifukwa zingapo:

    1. Iyi ndi blog yokhudzana ndi kutsatsa (kapena ndicho lingaliro langa). Ngakhale zili bwino kuwonjezera umunthu komanso kutchula zikhulupiriro zanu, uthenga wautali wokhudza zachipembedzo wandimitsa.

    Osandimvetsa molakwika; chipembedzo chili bwino ndipo ndimalemekeza zikhulupiriro zanu. Koma chipembedzo ndichamwini, ndipo sindikuganiza kuti chili ndi malo pabulogu yabizinesi. Ndikadakhala kuti ndikufuna kuwerenga zachipembedzo, ndikadalembetsa kuma blogi okhala ndi malingaliro achipembedzo.

    2. Kulemba za mtsikana wachinyamata kulira tsiku lonse atachita bwino kumandidwalitsa m'mimba. Mwanayo sakhumudwitsidwa, mwina amawopa zomwe mungachite!

    3. Kulemba zakumulanga mwana magiredi oyipa atangolira tsiku lonse (zomwe sizomwe zimachitika msungwana wachinyamata) zimandipangitsa kudwala. Kulanga wina akalakwa ndipo osadandaula, zowonadi. Koma wina akapanga chisankho choyipa, anazindikira, anaphunzirapo kanthu ndipo ali wokonzeka kuchita bwino nthawi ina, mudzisiyire pomwepo. Mulole mtsikanayo akhale wolimba mtima. Muloleni achite bwino chifukwa akufuna kutero - osati chifukwa choopa chilango.

    Ndimalemekeza kuti mwina mungavomereze kapena simukugwirizana nane. Ndimangoganiza kuti mungafune kudziwa chifukwa chake positiyi idasoweka pano.

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      Hi James,

      Zikomo potenga nthawi kuti mulembe. Ngati mukumva kuti muyenera kudzipereka, ndikadakhala achisoni kukuwonani ndikupita koma ndili bwino ndi zomwezo. Iyi si blog yothandizirana, ndiyokha. Mwakutero, ndikulangiza owerenga anga pamaluso anga koma ndimawonekeranso pofotokozera zikhulupiriro zanga ndi owerenga anga.

      Popita nthawi, ndakhala bwenzi lapamtima ndi owerenga blog yanga - makamaka gawo lina loti ndimagawana ntchito zanga komanso moyo wanga ndi owerenga anga. Ndimatero; komabe, sungani zolemba zanga pagulu langa "Kunyumba Kwathu" kuti mupewe kuziwerenga ngati mungafune.

      Ndimalemekeza malingaliro anu pazomwe zidachitika ndi mwana wanga wamkazi. Mwana wanga wamkazi samatsekeredwa paliponse :), ali ndi makonzedwe ambiri… foni yam'manja, wosewera wa mp3, kompyuta, kanema wawayilesi, ndi zina zambiri. Ndikukutsimikizirani kuti sakundiopa. Atha kukhumudwa akaganiza kuti wandikhumudwitsa, koma sindinapatse Katie chifukwa choti akhale 'wamantha'.

      Sindikutsimikiza kwenikweni, ndili ndi zaka 13, ndikadamulola kuti apake zodzoladzola koma ndi msungwana wabwino wokhoza bwino komanso wamakhalidwe abwino - chifukwa chake ndimayesetsa kumupatsa ufulu womwe akufuna. Akandiwonetsa kuti akhoza kuthana nazo, sindinamuikire malire. Ngati ndinu kholo, mukudziwa momwe izi zilili zovuta.

      Ndikukhulupirira kuti mumangokhala pafupi ndikundidziwa! Pali zambiri zabwino pa blog iyi ndipo ndimakonda kugawana zomwe ndimaphunzira pamakampaniwa.

      Achimwemwe,
      Doug

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    Zokwanira, Doug. Ndili ndi bizinesi blog komanso ndi gulu lotchedwa "Personal Ramblings" pamtundu womwewo wa zinthu. Kapangidwe ka tsambalo ndikufalitsa mpaka pano zidandipatsa chithunzi choti ndi blog yangwiro.

    Ndimapezeka kuti ndili pa intaneti kwambiri. Ndine waku Canada, ndipo chikhalidwe chathu chimangokhala chete pankhani zachipembedzo kuposa oyandikana nawo aku America, ambiri mwa iwo omwe amachita zinthu monyanyira (mwa lingaliro langa, ndipo sindikunena kuti ndinu opondereza). Ndimalemekeza zikhulupiriro za anthu ndipo ndili ndi zanga, sindimangokakamizidwa.

    Tsoka ilo, kuchita izi mopyola muyeso kwandisiya nditadandaula kwambiri kuti ndingagundidwe pa baibulo, ndipo radar yanga yakubwerayo yomwe ikubwera ikuwoneka kuti ikukhudzidwa kwambiri. Chifukwa chake ngati sindiponyedwa pano, ndimangokhala. Mgwirizano wabwino?

    Za ana aakazi… Ndizosangalatsa kumva kuti mumazindikira kuti achinyamata amafunikira ufuluwu, ndipo zikomo chifukwa chakuwongolera. Ndikukhulupirira motsimikiza kuti leash imalimbika, pomwe makolo amadzipangira mavuto ambiri. Komanso sindimapeza "makolo" omwe amakhala ndi dzanja lolemera ndi ana awo. Si yankho chabe.

    Ndipo ... Ndili ndi zaka 14 komanso mwana wakhanda, kotero ndimatha kulimbana ndi zovuta zakulera komanso mphamvu zodzoladzola.

    Zikomo chifukwa cha yankho lanu. Ndinali ndi (pang'ono bwino) poyankha bondo ku positiyi, kuti ndigawane pang'ono za ine kuti musaganize kuti ndine bulu wathunthu, werengani patsamba langa za momwe mabondo amagwirira ntchito.

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      Ife aku America timakonda kukankhira chilichonse kumaso kwa aliyense - nkhondo, chuma, ukadaulo, nyimbo, chipembedzo ... mumazitchula ndipo ndife onyadira kuti tidasokoneza bwanji! Pamene m'modzi wa ife ali wowona mtima, ndizovuta kuti titenge zolimba.

      Ndinakhala ku Vancouver zaka 6, ndikumaliza maphunziro anga ku High School kumeneko. M'malo mwake, mbali yamayi anga pabanja tonse ndi aku Canada. Agogo anga aamuna ndiopuma pantchito kuchokera kumaiko aku Canada. Ndine wokonda kwambiri Canada ndipo ndimatha kuyimba nyimbo (mu Chingerezi, ndayiwala mtundu waku France). Amayi anga ndi a Quebecois, obadwira ndikukula ku Montreal.

      Ndimaseka ndi anzanga akusukulu yasekondale kuti America sangafunse toque yabwinoko kuposa Canada!

      Zikomo chifukwa cha yankho lanu loganizira… sindinaganizepo choncho.

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