Kodi Chofunika Kwambiri Ndi Zotani Zokhudza Social Media?

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Gawo lotsatirali ndi lamunthu… kotero ngati mukuwona kuti ndizochulukirapo, pitani ku gawo lotsatirali!

Zokhudza Kumwalira kwa Agogo Anga

Mwezi uno wakhala wovuta. Masabata angapo apitawo, ndidayika mnzanga wapamtima waku sekondale. Ndipo dzulo, tidayika kholo lakale ndi bambo yemwe ndidatchulidwa, agogo anga, Douglas Morley. Ndikudziwa anthu ambiri ali ndi agogo osaneneka… koma agogo anga aamuna anali munthu wapadera. Analowa nawo gulu lankhondo lachifumu ku Canada ndipo adatumikira pankhondo yachiwiri yapadziko lonse. Iye anali katswiri wa zophulika, anapatsidwa ntchito ndipo anapuma pantchito ngati Kaputeni. Munthawi yomwe sanali wotchuka, adasankha kukwatira mkazi wachiyuda wokongola kwambiri - Agogo anga aakazi, Sylvia.

Agogo anga aakazi nawonso anali mayi wapadera komanso wamphamvu. Mpaka pomwe amwalira mu 2003, anali m'badwo wamtendere wabanja. Pomwe agogo anga aamuna amatumikira ku Europe konse, agogo anga aakazi adakhala ndi kampani yopambana - yomwe inali isanamveke panthawiyo. Agogo anga amalambira agogo anga aakazi…. ndipo sindinena mopepuka. Agogo anga aamuna atamwalira ndi mkazi wawo pambuyo pa zaka 58 zaukwati wokongola, adalemba mapiko omwe adamuthandiza kuwuluka moyo wake wonse anali atadulidwa. Sindikutsimikiza kuti ndidawonapo munthu yemwe anali wodzipereka kwathunthu kwa mkazi wake.

Popeza thanzi lawo lidatha, mwayi uliwonse woyembekezera agogo anga aakazi udalumpha ndi agogo anga. Sanazengereze - ngakhale ndimavuto akumbuyo komanso mavuto azaumoyo. Zinthu zikafika povuta kwambiri, adamuyika kuchipatala. Masiku angapo pambuyo pake, sanakonde momwe amasamaliridwira ndikukhazikitsa chipinda kunyumba. Anali pafupi ndi bedi lake usana ndi usiku. Anali ndi anthu obwera kudzachita misomali yake ndi tsitsi, nawonso. Sizinali zodabwitsa.

Pamaliro, ndinakumana ndi anthu ambiri omwe agogo anga aamuna adawakhudza. Monga wolima dimba yemwe samalankhula Chingerezi yemwe amasamalira nyumba ya agogo anga. Sindinadziwe konse kuti agogo anga anali atapeza ndalama kubizinesi ya mwamunayo. Ndinakumana ndi womusamalira, mayi waku Africa waku America yemwe adalira bokosi lake ndikundiuza kuti sanamvepo kuti amakondedwa ndi munthu wina aliyense. Ndinakumana ndi Rabi wake, yemwe adapitiliza kuphunzira naye agogo anga atamwalira (ngakhale adakhalabe Mprotestanti). Panali anthu ochokera konsekonse padziko lapansi omwe amabwera kapena kutumiza mawu awo achitonthozo. Amasoni adabwera ndikupereka mwambo wawo kutsazikana ndi m'bale. Membala wa American Legion adabwera ndikupereka ulemu kwa msirikali wina yemwe adamutaya m'badwo waukulu kwambiri.

Agogo anga aamuna anaikidwa m'manda atavala yunifolomu yawo ... ndipo nthawi zonse anali kuseka, nawonso anaikidwa m'manda ndi lamba wapakhomo yemwe anafunsira akagalamuka (adauza mdzukulu wawo wamwamuna wamkulu kuti azimumanga waya kuti amangomuka mosavomerezeka Amayi adayendera manda!). Atamaliza kusewera Mulungu Apulumutse Mfumukazi ndi Positi Yotsiriza… Zikwangwani zamoto zimayatsa ndi kutanthauzira kodabwitsa kwa Hava Nagila. Tonsefe tidakondwa ndikuseka, tonse tidagwetsa misozi… ndipo tonse tidamwetulira ndikutsanzikana ndi munthu wopambana.

Sindikutsimikiza kuti aliyense adalandirapo msonkho wachilendo komanso wodabwitsa. Ndikofunika kuzindikira kuti amayi anga, omwe amamusamalira modzipereka usana ndi usiku mzaka zingapo zapitazi, adakonza chiwonetserochi.

Kubwerera ku Social Media

Ndikalemba kuti agogo anga adadutsa pa Facebook, mazana a anthu adatenga nthawi kuti afotokoze. Ndalandira chigumula cha maimelo, mameseji, ma tweets, mafoni ndi zolemba zanga. Sindinatengeko gawo kuyambira pamenepo… banja ndilofunika kwambiri pakadali pano ndikuthandiza amayi anga (mwana yekhayo) akhala akuganizira kwambiri za ine. Makasitomala anga, abwenzi, ndi omvera onse andithandizira kwambiri lekeza panjira kuchokera pokhala ochezeka. Mawu sangathe kufotokoza momwe ndakhudzidwira ndi inu anthu. Zikomo.

Sindikulemba izi chifukwa cha kumvera ena chisoni kapena chisoni… ndimangofuna kuti ndizikutsatirani pomwe ndingathe ndikugawana nanu anthu chifukwa chomwe ndakhala chete. Ndikukhulupirira kuti moyo wa agogo anga amafunika kugawana ndikukondwerera, osati kulira.

Komanso, zandipangitsa kumvetsetsa zomwe zingakhale zofunikira kwambiri pazanema. Nthawi zonse ndimakhala ndi nthawi yovuta ndi mawu Chiyanjano… Yayamba kumveka ngati yokonzedweratu ndikupanga. Kuvulazidwa sizofanana ndi chinkhoswe. Chinkhoswe chimachitika pakati pa magulu awiri ofunitsitsa… chiopsezo chimachitika pamene mbali imodzi imangotsegukira imodzi. Chiwopsezo chikhoza kukutsegulaninso kunyozedwa, kunyozedwa komanso kutsutsidwa kotheka. Koma koposa zonse, kusatetezeka kumakutsegulirani kuti mulumikizane pamlingo ndi omvera anu omwe palibe njira ina iliyonse yolumikizirana yomwe ingapereke. Kukhala osatetezeka sikungalembedwe patsamba lililonse lotsatsa.

Ndicho chomwe chiri chapadera kwambiri pazanema.

3 Comments

  1. 1

    Ndikumutonthoza kwambiri mnzanga. Agogo ako amamveka ngati munthu wodabwitsa. Ndikulakalaka ndikadakhala ndi mwayi wokumana naye. Munali ndi mwayi wodziwa agogo anu. Anga anamwalira ndili mwana kuti ndikumbukire. Choncho muziyamikira zokumbukirazo.

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  2. 3

    Ndakhala ndikugulitsa zaka 30. Zolinga zamagulu zimagwira ntchito pokhapokha ngati pali kulumikizana kwachindunji komanso kulumikizana kwenikweni. Ndimaona kuti ndizoseketsa kuti nthawi zambiri amawawona ngati chipolopolo chamatsenga. Popanda kutengapo gawo komanso kulumikizana kwenikweni ndizochita zopanda pake. Chiwerengero cha otsatira ndi chachiwiri pamtundu wachipanganocho.

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